Understanding why your horse developed a habit of not wanting to load in the first place is crucial, not only because it can help us understand the best approach to change it, but because it will hopefully mean that we prevent it from happening again. You might manage to get your horse to load (for example using a bucket of grain to entice him or forcing him on with a whip) but without figuring out the reason for him not wanting to load, the problem will likely not be solved, and you will find yourself in this same situation time and time again. … More What To Do If Your Horse Refuses To Load
“The true joy of learning is in its infinity and the greatest discoveries are those that leave you certain that you have only scratched the surface. ” … More Are You a Teacher, a Trainer, or a Guide?
It’s the familiar irony of working with horses, that whenever we practice patience, training seems to speed up, and when we slow down the teaching process, the learning process speeds up exponentially. How many of us have left hours to get a task done and it ended up taking a mere 10 minutes – but you just KNOW that if you’d given yourself just 10 minutes, it would have ended up taking hours (or not happening at all). When it comes to horses, adding a human agenda, a strict time restriction, or a dead-set training target is a surefire way to ensure you DON’T reach your goal! … More The Secret to Good Horsemanship? Patience.
When it comes to horsemanship, where do you draw the line between ‘good’ and ‘bad’? When does a method cross the line between being ‘firm’ or ‘strict’, into being ‘forceful’ or ‘abusive’? When you ride, train, or look after your horse, which practices would you deem acceptable or unacceptable? How far should we be allowed to go in our quest for obedience, for submission, for ‘leadership’?
It seems to me that everyone has their own idea of what is and isn’t acceptable when it comes to horses. In the competition world there are many aspects that could be looked upon unfavourably – cranked nosebands, tight martingales and tie-downs, spurs worn by those yet to master a stable leg, whips wielded like weapons rather than aids of precision. … More Changing the Narrative: Your Horse, YOUR Problem
This ‘language of the aids’ can be as simple or complex as we make it, but as a means of communication it has one fatal flaw – it allows information to flow in one direction only. Imagine learning a foreign language that you can only understand, but are incapable of ever speaking. The only means you would have to communicate with anyone would be to respond to what they say or not. Because if you think about it, this is what we expect our horses to do. More often than not your horse is only left with two choices – to do what you ask, or to not do what you ask… and inevitably have to deal with the consequences of not ‘behaving’. … More The Language of Horsemanship: An Introduction
I’m often told that there are two types of riders – those that compete and those that don’t. To the competitive rider, those who don’t compete are often dismissed as lesser riders, or worse, not ‘real’ riders. Many non-competitive riders seem reduced to shamefully excusing themselves as a ‘happy hacker’ or trying to make it sound a bit better with the rather vague ‘oh, we do a bit of everything’. There are the stereotypes too – that competitive types put their horses at risk for the sake of a rosette or run them into the ground to ensure a ‘win’; or that those that choose not to compete do nothing ‘worthwhile’ with their horses. … More Your Horse Doesn’t Care About Winning
I’ve been working a lot with rescue horses recently and I’ve been struck by how much we, as humans, seem to fixate on the past. It’s interesting to me how so many owners begin to describe their horses by explaining their background, as if it is the single most important thing that defines their horse’s character. ‘He was so mistrusting of humans when I got him, because he was abused’, ‘He hates having his ears touched, because he was twitched as a youngster’, ‘He has separation anxiety because he was once left tied to a tree’, ‘He hates jumping because his last rider pushed him too fast’. Every horse seems to have a story and it is so rarely positive. … More Are you stuck in your horse’s past?